February 19th, 2020
Day 190 of 365 Days of Mindfulness Mastery
Blessings Soul Family,
Spirit spoke to me during my dreamtime and a very clear message came through in regards to what Love is, and what it isn’t. Perhaps this message is one you are now ready to open to & receive, or perhaps it is not. As always I am simply the messenger, so do with this wisdom as you will.
So often, we regard co-dependency as loyalty and we refer to that co-dependency as Love. This is an example of what Love is not. Love honors the freewill & therefore freedom of all, including ourselves. Love is not driven by fear, rather fear is the temporary forgetfulness of Love.
When we attempt for example to protect the ones we Love. This is more likely an energy to control, and therefore flowing from fear and Not Love. When we honor each individual as a powerful and capable Soul that is moving through their necessary experiences, Love is flowing. It is all very simple, and yet how often do we muddle things up in our lives simply by confusing fear with Love?
As always, it is wise to begin with ourselves: To know thyself is the most important part of Love. If we do not consider ourselves or know ourselves, how can we truly Love ourselves? Therefore, Love truly begins with the self and flows outward.
If we expect Love and Honor from another, it would be incredibly wise to observe the alignment within that individual. If you observe an individual who puts themselves last, who mistreats their body, who lives in co-dependence, you can clearly see this individual is Not (yet) Loving themselves. Why then do we expect this individual to Love & Honor us? How can they if they cannot yet offer this gift to themselves?
Mindfulness is essential in regards to living a Love filled & honoring life. Without mindfulness, we simply continue to unconsiously co-create dysfunctional experiences with co-dependent players. This is and always will be a lose/lose game. You might co-dependently choose to play for awhile but in time the truth will always become clear to the one ready to SEE.
Begin by truly Loving yourself by fully accepting yourself as you are. Practice Love with yourself and practice freedom with yourself. If we cannot FEEL inner peace now within ourselves, attaching ourself to another fearful human will not bring about that result. Our inner Peace is and always will be an inside job, and the Love we give will always flow from the inner alignment of Self Love or it will flow from the lack of that alignment as fear masked as Love. There is a HUGE difference my friends.
For this moment choose to BE Fully Present. Choose to let go of controlling anything that is outside of self. Choose to align within, Choose Love Now.
✨ Namaste, Tawnya Love & Source Oneness ✨