Are you a Lover or a Fighter w/Intuitive Healer Tawnya Love

Day 29 of 365 Days of Mindfulness

By Tawnya Love & the Angels

January 29th, 2017

Are You a Lover or a Fighter? Take a moment and feel the immediate response or reaction that arises within yourself as you tune in to answer this question. For myself, I spent years being a fighter. I felt like I was fighting constantly. Now, first of all, let’s take the pressure off. Your answer isn’t a right or wrong answer. So get rid of any need to feel defensive or justified for your choices up to this Now moment. Just FEEL for the answer within yourself, right Here, right Now.

When I was a fighter like I shared, I felt like I was fighting with everything. I was literally abused as a child, and so I can honor that for a part of my journey, being a fighter just may have saved my life….Or that choice just may have invited more drama into my world. What I do know is that for a time, I felt a need to fight! And so fight I did!

One day, this response to fight started to FEEL exhausting. I just couldn’t keep going the way I had been going for so long. I get an image of Rocky Balboa in his last film, called Creed. Rocky was so used to fighting- and one could say he was justified, even paid to fight. His entire egoic Identity was attached to being a great fighter. However, there came a day when fighting no longer served his soul. There came a day when surrender was neccasary, not only for survival but for health, happiness and joy.

In my humble perspective, I feel we all will benefit greatly when we come to that moment of awareness where we choose to Stop Fighting Anything. Wisdom of the basic laws of attraction can help us understand that anything we resist, persists…That which we fight, we invite! If you don’t believe me, that’s okay. Don’t take my word for it. Test it out and experience it for yourself, and then you will Know truth!

Look at something in your life from the past where you chose to fight, resist, manipulate or control. Be honest with yourself, and notice if in those attempts, you started to receive more life situations or people to fight, resist or attempt to control. Now, on the opposite side of the spectrum, observe times you chose to accept others, life situations or inner conditions, times where you surrendered the fight-resist response. Observe how in those moments, life offered you solutions, helpers, and what some may even call Miracles.

Now, if you’ve always been fighting everyone and everything – maybe even yourself included – perhaps you could open yourself to a new way, or perhaps you feel “No! I cannot be open to another way. I must fight, fight, fight!” Just notice. Be aware of your inner self.

Just bring presence inward, and notice if you feel open to moving in a new direction or if there is resistance. Just Observe. Just FEEL. Listen and Allow. Simply bringing awareness is the rising of consciousness. This is a beautiful choice, for when we invite consciousness, we invite Miraculous Solutions, and often, incredibly powerful shifts occur.

When one chooses the path of the Lover rather than the Fighter, a great shift ignites first within the human making this choice, and then within all of this humans’ creations, relationships and so on. It’s important to understand that All of our focus will be best utilized when we are focused within. We can shift ourselves and choose to change Our behavior. We can Not shift anyone else’s behavior or choices, we can only support and heal ourselves. This is Our work to do.

It’s important to understand this, because if you haven’t realized this yet, you will be one of the countless humans avoiding your own inner work in an attempt to Save the World “Out There,” or avoiding your own inner healing in an attempt to Change another’s behavior. It’s Impossible to make others change. The fighters are often, from what I have observed, wasting countless energy fighting others, trying to change others, and trying to change the external world. It is an exhausting path, and a path many will find lots of arguments and justifications for choosing to continue their fight.

Fighting invites more of the same. Loving invites transformation. When the day arrives where you suddenly realize that fighting is not working for you or others, an inner shift occurs. Suddenly, your primary focus is Love. First you will start to care more about your inner state of peace and ease than you will about fighting anything. Self Love will become Incredibly interesting and important to you. This is Not selfishness- self Love is our most important focus, for we cannot truly Love another until we have mastered self Love.

Many humans have been conditioned to believe that caring about their own needs, feelings or emotions is selfish. This is Not true. Often as humans, we are conditioned out of self Love. We then become angry, frustrated, and have incredible Dis-ease. If these inner shifts go unnoticed, they can quickly lead to unconscious behavior. The human finds themselves fighting within, and it won’t be long before they invite the external fight.

It’s important to catch this, and to observe how we have been trained out of Loving ourselves, and conditioned and trained out of Loving others. I truly do not observe babies hating others, or hating themselves. Babies are taught by the hurting humans around them to give up their Alignment with Source, to give up self Love and start the human fight and resistance.

I encourage you to just observe this for yourself.

When a human has chosen to SEE clearly, everything can shift. Again, the first shifts will be inner shifts, as the human chooses to return to Love- as this human suddenly starts to care about how he or she FEELS within, as they care about their own needs being met, and then give themselves the Love they’ve been waiting for.

We cannot truly Get our Love “Out There,” though many will attempt to get Love from parents, friends, peers, partners, lovers, children, co workers, or even society as a whole. We can seek it and seek it, until we realize there is not enough Love in this world to make up for the lack of Love we hold within ourselves. No one, I repeat No one, can Ever Love You enough to make up for your refusal to Love Yourself.

Now, when we realize we’ve been looking for Love in all the wrong places, we are beginning to awaken. Now we have an important choice to make: Do we continue the search for Love “Out There”? Do we continue to deny ourselves Love Now, and keep on fighting others and ourselves? Do we keep justifying why we have to fight? Or do we choose to stop the madness, stop the fight, and Surrender? When we choose to surrender, this is the first step of our return to Love.

As we choose to BE Love, we naturally realign with Source God. We connect with each new sacred moment with a few choices. We accept this moment which offered us ease. We move around any perceived obstacles. For example, if we have a negative thought arise, we choose to move beyond it and choose a Loving thought. Or in our external Reality, if someone opposes us, lashes out at us or shames us, we choose to step aside, move around or beyond this external distraction. We realize we have the power to choose.

We have always had the power to choose. However, Now we realize it, and we make our choices from self Love. This is a miraculous new way of being and living. We find ourselves in a state of peace and ease. We notice that life works things out for us- solutions arise, helpers show up. We Allow life to support us on every level, and we SEE clearly that we do Not ever need to fight Anything. In fact, we observe that fighting has never been more efficient.
When we choose to BE Love, we co-create Love. We co-create Miracles. When we choose to fight and shame, we co-create more pain and shame within ourselves, and we project that pain upon others. If the others are still unconscious, we assist them in taking in more guilt, pain and shame, and we suffer because we are co-creating suffering. There is no freedom in fighting, no freedom in creating suffering.

Love is the answer. Love is the solution. Love is All We Need. This universal truth has always been here within each of us, and it shall always be here available within each of us. No fight needed. Love shall set You Free!!!

Infinite Love and Blessings, Tawnya Love & the Angels

Thank You for All You Are All You give in Spreading the gift of LOVE each sacred moment!!! đź’–

This too shall pass w/Intuitive Healer Tawnya Love

 

Day 27 of 365 Days of Mindfulness
By Tawnya Love & the Angels

January 27th, 2017

One of the most truthful statements I’ve ever heard…This too shall pass. For everything we are experiencing today shall shift, move, and transform. Everything. This is a Universal Law, as the very Universe itself is in a constant state of evolution and expansion.
The beauty of this wisdom is that we discover that we are never truly stuck. Be aware that you don’t allow your own mind or others to tell you that you are stuck or not progressing, because it’s just not true. You are One with life, and life is forever in a constant state of change and evolution. The one thing we can count on is change!

Change seems to terrify so many humans that have lost their awareness of their connection with life itself. I Love to observe nature as a focal point of this very truth. Observe the subtle shifts of nature as the moon illuminates and then seems to disappear over and over again. Observe the trees as they burst forth in full gorgeous blossom, then they slowly start to drop those gorgeous petals until we start to observe soft green baby leaves growing where the blossoms once delighted us. And subtly those baby soft greens become stronger and bigger, only to start to slowly drop and fall away in the autumn one-by-one. Then we observe a stark naked tree that appears to be asleep in deep stillness and rest, only to repeat this miraculous cycle again in the Spring.
Observing and connecting with nature helps us to remember we are One with life. We start to FEEL One with nature and its cycles rather than separate and fearful as we cling and attempt to control life. It’s a useless Battle fighting life, and an exhausting one.

Each day we are given a fresh New Now to enjoy to the fullest as we live in surrendered trust. Or we can attempt to control life again living with great stress, tension and dis-ease. The choice is ours to make and an important choice in regards to our joy, health and happiness.

There will be times you feel like your life is bursting forth in magnificent blossoming. And there will be times it feels all you are, all you’ve known is falling away beyond your control. Let it fall! Trust that this Divine and intelligent Universe has a beautiful Divine plan for your life. Just like it has a plan for that little maple seed that will one day become a big beautiful maple tree towering high in the forest. There is also a Divine plan for You!

Today go and connect with nature, maybe take a nice stroll through the forest or a nice park. BE with nature sit down somewhere comfy and close your eyes and listen deeply to the sounds. FEEL yourself connected and rooted to the Earth. Observe the current cycles occurring all around you, notice it these cycles feel symbolic for what’s occurring within yourself or your external Reality. Are you experiencing a deep quiet restful Winter? Or are you bursting forth ready to blossom with New growth? Enjoy observing, feeling, connecting and listening!

Infinite Blessings, Tawnya Love & the Angels
Thank You for sharing this Divinely Inspired Message đź’–

Staying Grounded

Your task for this week and every week if you choose it is to GET OUTSIDE! Keeping ourselves grounded is very important and necessary for health and well being. If we wish to develop our psychic gifts we must remain grounded and centered so that we can listen, trust and feel our way. This means daily connection with your body, mind and soul all synchronized as ONE. When we are not grounded we struggle to draw our full potential of energy throughout our body, and awareness so that we can connect with higher consciousness (the space where all truth, wisdom and solution lies). This is much like being an electronic device that is not plugged in, it just doesn’t work…we miss the opportunity to shine and use our full power and potential.

Connecting with Mother Earth is very healing and powerful for us, often when we are the most stressed out and disconnected we neglect this deep need for earth connection. I encourage you all to really practice the difference in daily nature connection as opposed to missing this connection…simply note the difference you will learn best through experience so journal your awareness as you make a point to connect with nature daily, as well as journal how you feel when you miss this opportunity. Wisdom will flow through your own experience so pay attention and learn.

How to know if we are NOT grounded:

~Our perceived fears are out of control, anxiety
~We tend to exaggerate our problems and obsessively worry
~Many become overly dramatic and defensive
~Feelings of insecurity and depression rise
~We begin to stumble, accident prone, flighty and are not present
~We find it a struggle to concentrate and BE present and focused in the Now
~We feel as if we are spinning our wheels getting nowhere, wasting energy and generating more stress…feelings of exhaustion

When we are not grounded and present our energy gets blocked and we struggle to connect mind and heart. If we are too mind focused we can obsess and get stuck in our head. This causes a disconnect and we struggle to connect mind and heart and therefore we feel cut off from inner knowing AKA intuition. Being grounded is our basic need to tuning into our intuition. As we consciously connect with Source we ignite our energy and we thrive, when we disconnect from Source we struggle and cause harm to our body, mind and spirit.

When we are cut off from Source and ungrounded we become defensive, crabby and emotional. It is wise to take notice of this shift in emotion immediately as you feel the feeling of being OFF, and get outside and move your body and clear the energy away. Being ungrounded will sneak up on us so pay attention and simply reconnect as soon as you notice these uncomfortable unpleasant energies.

We can observe the signs of being ungrounded:
~we feel anxious
~we feel crabby
~we start wasting energy complaining about how crappy we feel
~we lose your connection and feel uneasy, unfocused, or unhappy

The important thing to remember is to catch these shifts before we unravel and lose control of our energy. The good news is that it is easy to plug back in and get connected. Simply get back into your body breathe and move your body. Getting our bodies back into alignment and into Divine flow moves our energy and helps us feel reconnected and in this space we can FEEL our way and follow intuition and know thy self. Our solutions to life situations lie within and when we are connected we can easily access this higher consciousness and wisdom. We stop spinning our wheels and wasting energy and start flowing with ease, grace and efficiency.

Make it a habit to ground, and connect daily it will serve you and others in powerful and miraculous ways. Try it!
Namaste, Blessings  Tawnya Love ❤