Sept 30th 2021
Day 209 of 365 Days of Mindfulness Mastery with Tawnya Love
The Courage to Receive
Greetings Beautiful Beings,
Today while supporting a Beloved Soul Sister and Client an important message emerged that I feel inspired to share with all whom are open & receptive.
Now to offer a glance of this woman, allow me to say that this is a very empowered, independent, and hard working woman. A woman who like many of us has experienced deep childhood trauma.
For many of us who have gone through painful traumatic experiences while doing our best to grow up and mature, there has been an added pressure that many may not understand if they didn’t experience trauma.
This pressure begins when we are young, when we begin to feel it is Our responsibility to help everyone, or to keep the peace, or pay the bills. This feeling of a Saviour Complex is ignited within, and for many hurting humans if this misaligned energy is left unchecked it can lead to great suffering, exhaustion, burnout, and illness. A multitude of problems begin to manifest while asleep to this misaligned belief.
During this Soul Coaching Session my client shared with me how through all the goodness and growth that she’s experienced she still often feels bad or angry with herself for ever needing help. Rather than recognizing the importance of receiving support from those in positions to assist her.
This woman who gives until she is empty, this woman who goes until she’s exhausted feels guilty to receive. Isn’t that interesting? She and I talked through this inner struggle and it was made clear to her as to where this conflict comes from. Where this deep inner resistance was first ignited during her traumatic childhood.
It is important to be open and willing to observe ourselves. And it can be incredibly helpful to have a Loving guide/mentor that we trust to assist us with this shadow work. Our Aware Self Loves to observe and understand. Our True Aware Self has no problem or resistance to receiving support from another in any form. Our wounded Egoic self however is terrified of needing anyone and struggles to trust in anyone or anything.
Here lies the birthing of the inner conflict that manifests itself in a multitude of troublesome experiences. When we have an inner resistance to receiving, we block All Our Good Stuff from flowing to us.
We get in our own way. We sabotage our good. We block our flow. We exhaust ourselves and We Suffer unnecessarily in silence and often in isolation. All because at one point in time we chose to believe We weren’t enough. That we couldn’t ask for help because then we would be weak.
This belief haunts most of society from those who appear to be incredibly successful to the deepest darkest drug addict, to the workaholic mother or father that can’t ever seem to relax, to the high school dropout who couldn’t bother to even try. What they all have in common is The belief that they are Not Enough.
This misaligned belief blocks our Good vibes, our supportive team, clogs our arteries and makes us sick. This is after all a misaligned belief. It is Not The Truth. And the only thing that will ever set us Free is The Truth.
Now, my client is an aware human who’s ready for positive empowering changes. If she wasn’t ready she wouldn’t have chosen to be my client. She would have continued to make excuses and continued to lie to herself and suffer in silence alone. But as uncomfortable as it was for her to open herself up, to be vulnerable, to be trusting and to allow herself to receive support, guidance, and healing she made that important choice.
And let me tell you that as the mentor who has stood by her side through this process, she is evolving rapidly and healing swiftly. Even though she still has glimmers of that past trauma and whispers from her wounded Egoic sense of self. She is now Observing it all. She is now recognizing who she is Not so she can allow herself to BE who she truly is.
She is asking for help and support even though at times that feels so uncomfortable because it’s out of her trauma zone. She’s remembering who she truly is and Loving all of who she has chosen to be. I am so incredibly proud of her ever growing awareness and self-love. And she is now proud of her ever growing awareness and choice of self-love. What a beautiful journey!
May this message reach you at the Divinely Aligned Time Beloved Soul. You Are Loved. And You Are WORTHY.
Infinite Blessings, Tawnya Love & Source Oneness
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